Love

Its the affection, the feeling that brings joy and happiness to most people. Its the wonderful feeling that comes into our hearts wether we are in a relationship or not. And since yesterday was valentines I thought its good to show love to the people we care about and this means little actions of kindness not necessarily gifts, but when asked to choose most of us will pick gifts not realizing kindness is far much better way of showing love than gifts. Even writing this blog is a sign of my love to you. I choose to see good in you and believe in my readers.

Kindness reaches to the bottom of our hearts. So find that child who has not eaten for days and take him to the hotel, that stranger who seems cold and hand him/her a coat, those with no shoes hand them yours, those who have been broken and give them hope. Thats what love is according to me. I mean it costs nothing but its the little things that most of us fear to do that brings us countless blessings. Forget about your own troubles and seek to help others. I mean “we will only get what we want if we help others get enough what they want.” Zig ziglar

So yesterday I believe I touched someones heart. And if you don’t believe me, then believe on what am writing maybe one day you will feel the same feeling I am. Guess I was not in good moods too but someone also encouraged me. It feels like a little heaven, right? And I guess you should try out too.

Its still valentines, right? Cz I have a feeling of giving out more kindness😊😊. You should too😁.

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Silent days

‘I have been silent for a while,’ I thought as i took my computer pen and paper…I call them my best buddies. To me having them inspires me to write, laugh at my crazy thoughts and even sing when it all gets too wonderful. Gone are the bad days when i used to think everything around me must have some negativity of its own. I used to think every good thing must have some faults and i even had the courage to extend it to my friends and those around me.

Hahaha, that did not help at all,,, I call those days ‘Negative days’ and when I compare my life and then all i can say that I have taken another good step towards improving my life. Am not saying this to boast but I believe this can help you and me see the beauty of this life and appreciate every single breath our creator has granted us.

Now I choose to see good, I choose health even when I am faced with numerous health challenges, I chose faith,,,yes it keeps me hopeful and joyful, I choose to see the happy me and see good in everything especially where people choose not to see it. I choose kindness, its a virtue that brings all good things. In short I choose to be a magnet of good by being good. Finally, I choose love and this means loving and doing everything with all my heart.

You can do that too. Hey yes, all things are possible and you can have all the strength and courage you need if you have faith in the Lord. I guarantee that life is good when you choose to see good in everything.

Those are just my thoughts and I am on my way to a happy life….all of this came when i was silent. The silent days.

Count your blessings

‘ There is just something one must be thankful for’ I thought.

Recently I have been so worried about the direction my life is heading to, I have no job, nothing seems just right…then I just reflected that there is something I can be greatful for…I mean, not one, many things you have even the small that seems not of importance deserves greatfulness. Then I remembered to count my blesings and things just seemed right once again.

What you have in with you is just what will make you rise to another step in your life, so start recognising those small gifts that God has made available in your life and take a minute to say thank you.

We need to be thankful for life, because it gives us hope that another chance. Our mums, dads, siblings, your friends, your granys, your material possessions and those little little sounds of hope and faith that tells us to keep moving forward. I realised that by appreciating the little we have, more shall be added unto us and worry is driven away.

So start counting those blessing, remember even Moses was asked what do you have in your hand. You could be holding a rod that soars you to greater heights, that makes you move from that dark spot of your life to the path of light.

So I decided from today not to worry and start counting all the blessings I have been granted, afterall, worry doesn’t add even a single hour to my life. I hope you start counting those blessings. 😊😊

No Guessing

I had to share this poem. Guess am not so much into poetry but i found this one helpful for me and you.

If you could succeed

In fulfilling your dream

Let not your efforts

Ever lose there stream

You must think positive

Be creative too

Rise above failure

In all that you do

As long as you live

You can solve your problems

By thinking logically

Which destroys mental gobblins

As you rise above failure

Count each blessing

The awards received

Which bear no guessing.

Happy 2018

” May the youthfulness of the year refresh you now and always. May the tenderness of her buds glow and blossom your life. May the aroma of 2018 unfold over you every single day of the year. May the aura of His presence remain a heartprint upon your life.

You will not faint and diminish,

You will not be feeble or stagnate,

You will not be weary or give up,

You will not be discouraged and look back.

Your steps are like the prancing of horses,

Your leaping like the feet of the hind,

Your face is targeting like the flint,

Your zeal like an army aroused for battle.

This is a year of difference, it is the year of the Lord. It is the set time of your lifting where He upholds you with His right hand. The year of manifold presence where He will be with you always…in all ways…” and I add,,,it is my year of releasing all the fears and have the energy of a bullet.

You may be making your resolutions, you may be wondering on how this year will be now that last year was a dissapointment but be encouraged in the Lord.

Happy 2018

” May the youthfulness of the year refresh you now and always. May the tenderness of her buds glow and blossom your life. May the aroma of 2018 unfold over you every single day of the year. May the aura of His presence remain a heartprint upon your life.

You will not faint and diminish,

You will not be feeble or stagnate,

You will not be weary or give up,

You will not be discouraged and look back.

Your steps are like the prancing of horses,

Your leaping like the feet of the hind,

Your face is targeting like the flint,

Your zeal like an army aroused for battle.

This is a year of difference, it is the year of the Lord. It is the set time of your lifting where He upholds you with His right hand. The year of manifold presence where He will be with you always…in all ways…” and I add,,,it is my year of releasing all the fears and have the energy of a bullet.

You may be making your resolutions, you may be wondering on how this year will be now that last year was a dissapointment but be encouraged in the Lord.

Grace

Its not by our might that we might boast but its by the grace of God.

Recently just a day before yesterday at night some people experienced a tragic accident at Migaa Kenya. And what made me so remorseful was the mother who lost the husband and her four children. The woman is still bedridden. I also lost a friend and classmate this year. May his soul rest in peace.Many have perished through accidents, sickness, old age and suicide. So i mean if you have been blessed to see the new year you should be able to understand it is not by our might but the Lords Grace!!!πŸ˜‰ I reflect on how this year has been and am truly thankful because my life has moved to another level despite the challenges. But i cannot forget to give hope: If you have tears at the moment, let 2018 be your year of Joy. If you have been heartbroken let 2018 be a year of your healing and blessings of new friends, If you have been broke condition your mind to riches and they will come to you. We are what we think and believe we are. If you have been hungry, let the new year be of fill. If you have been angry and disappointed to those around you, let this year be a year of forgiveness. If you have had your resolutions not fulfilled, well God has given you another opportunity to chase them. If you are discouraged and fearful remember you can do all things through Christ. If you have failed remember no great achievement has been made withiout several failures. If you are looking for a job do not be limited. You can create one. Let this year be the year of prosperity, hope, courage, knowledge, success, wealth, happiness, good friends and a year of taking another positive step in your life. Happy new year.Be blessed.πŸ˜‰πŸ˜€

Brilliant mornings

I like it when I wake up early just before the sun ‘pops out’, like today…the beauty of the sun as it rises from east just makes my heart glitter with inspirations of a new day.

This is the time i usually remember to thank my creator. Its my best time of the day. Its the early hours that i medidate on my life and get hope from the nature around me.

New day means new opportunities, means new chances, new day to live once more….i mean it gives me motivation and hope.

So as usuall i woke up to catch a glimpse of the rising sun at the topmost of a stone…cool morning breeze passing through my skin makes me shiver a little but my motivation comes from seeing the rising sun and so i enjoy just seeing another chance to make myself more better.

I hope you also enjoy and be thankful as me as you see another day😊😊

Make the difference now

Many at times I think to myself and wonder what if everybody were to nature his/her gifts, what if everyone could be ordered to do one specific thing you love. What would you chose? I mean its time we make a difference. Its now or never. Today and not tomorrowπŸ˜ƒ.

It takes courage and determination to accomplish our goals leave alone taking the first step, we need first to have a goal that shows us the way. If a footballer has no goal of striking the opponent, what reason does he has to play? No reason at all. We need to have goals and visions that guides us. However simple it may be, I am sure it will help us feel a sense of satisfaction upon accomplishment.

Each one of us God implanted gifts of the holy spirit and each were to be used diligently and cheerfully.

Romans 12:6

‘We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us…’

We have to choose that one specific thing we love and choose to nature, grow it as you grow with it for if we love what we do then what we do will take us far. I hope you will think about that thing you love to do and do it cheerfully. Take that bold first step!!!

The big you

There I sat contemplating how confusing, difficult, miserable life can be. I mean there are a lot more things in life that often attack our beautiful days and all this make us feel empty, unwanted and lonely at times, but come on we can raise us above all this negativities of life and cheer up and carry yourself in a blessed way, better way and gear ourselves to the ‘big us.’😊😊

On my last blog i mentioned i am going to expound on self image. Here I am expounding as ‘the big you’

Often when we view ourselves in a way people want us to we will tend not to succeed in life. In fact, frustrations will be our norm so here are a few tips on keeping us big

1. The way we think about ourselves. Looking yourself in the mirror and in the eye when you have any discouraging occasions and repeat some positive affirmations of the positive things you have done and what other positive people have said about you. Here, concentrate on comments such as integrity, cheerfulness, good nature, happy, fulfilling and many other of your choice it often make us clear the bad moments. Use the light inside you to cover the dark: people and situations have created about you.

2.You can also join organizations and seminars that help build you. Some will require you to give a speech, to talk and therefore boosting your confidence and this is just what we need to overcome fear.

3.Criticize the performance and not the performer( Rebuke the actions and not people). Always posses good comments, good etiquette and use the sorry, thank you and excuse me. The more you ‘pass on’ to others (give) the more you keep to your self. If you do this you will be able to have confidence in yourself and have others have confidence in you. Create peaceful environment around you and you will discover the bigger you.

4. Always remember an optimist as you probably know, is a person who when he wears out his shoes and he just figures out he is back on his feet. If you have the right mental attitude and be an optimist you can reach to the big you.

5.Motivate yourself. There are three kinds of motivation. Fear motivations, here the person fears the action but still motivates him/her self to do the action. Carrot motivation, here the person reward him/her self after completion of a certain goal (most of us belong here). Internal motivation. Where the big sound probably convinces us to do it, some people experiencing this may actually be overcome by fear…but come on, we need to fight to see the bright side always. No one can motivate you better than yourself.

Its okay to get down but don’t get down on yourself.’